Sexual dysfunction? help?

Im 20yr old girl.. ive been with my husband for 1 1/2yrs and we just got married a few weeks ago. I am very attracted to him and i want nobody else.. but here's my problem. When we get to getting intimate, I just lose it. Im not sure wat it is, i still want to do it and i still want to be with him but i just lose it u know... its weird.
and wen i dont lose it.. he starts doin things but i jus cant focus or somthin. its not that i am thinkin of other things but i jus cant feel anything. i am still in the mood n want 2 keep goin but i jus cant enjoy it much.

im not on any medications.. im not depressed. I used to b when was a teenager but im actualy happy now. im not stressed out. its honestly like nothin is wrong, except for this.

please help me. i dont know what to do. im starting to think that there is somthing very wrong with me sexually or with my health.

ohh and hes been my first and only guy.

thank u in advance =}

Go and get a bottle of wine, relax, and things will be fine!!!!

think positive everything is good, read some sex arousal literature, you both watch some sex movies, ask you husband to foreplay with you and ask to leave you without intercourse for 2 to 4 days and after that ask to do foreplay more smooches, kissing, licking etc., and do whatever you like. but remember you are made for each other and love your husband always, you two are for each other, one for other, if still you feel weird consult a doctor

Same problem that was wrong with me but I turned 20 in sept. and had this problem for a few months before I saw my doctor. I love my boyfriend, been together for almost 4 years, live together.I had a hormone inbalance. My birth control caused it so I had to switch. It says your not on any meds are your on birth control? go to the doc and get your hormones checked and your white blood cell count. I know someone who had a problem just the same because her white blood cell count.

Have you been mindfucking someone else?